Life Rescue Formula

Introduction

Life pushes us to hard situations and gives us a sequence of tests along its phase to make us a better person. A businessman works day and night on his business to develop it globally, and if the business fails, his dream diminishes, and makes him lose confidence over himself. Here he needs someone to push him up and give confidence. Similar incidents happen with a student, a professor, a lover and all other professional people. When life pushes us down, we spend all our time regretting the one mistake we did in the past. We start seeing ourselves as failure and let our failure rule us. At this point, we let our vision cover with wrong perspectives on life, making wrong decisions, and failing even more. How can we rescue ourselves from the ill thoughts and wrong decisions?

Two bad thoughts

When we fail in something, it affect our thoughts in two ways. We either regret our past mistake and stay in depression or we create a fear over future that holds us behind.
Past is something we can never change and future is something that only we have control over. When we consider ourself as failure, our environment changes with respect to our thoughts, and whatever we do will never result in success. We addict ourselves to bad habits, trying to escape from reality, spoiling our health condition, making our situations critical. In reality, bad habits will never rescue us but it will spoil us more. Bad thoughts lead to bad habits, bad habits lead to bad environment, bad environment leads to bad decisions, bad decisions lead to failure.
Future is something we own control over. We can work hard in present and change the future in our own way. Our positive thoughts will create us opportunities to succeed. People end their life in fear to face the future, assuming that they can't control their future. Ending our life may be easiest way to get out of problems, but only a coward will seek to run from problems. If you know how our life is designed, you will wait eager to face it.

Life pattern

As we grow old every year, we gradually forget how our life is designed. Our life as a creature in this earth possess a basic pattern. 

“Stand up, fall down, try until you stand up again, and start walking.”

This is the basic pattern that every creature is designed to follow. A bird can't fly in it's first attempt; a lion can't hunt in it's first attempt. Even though birds are meant to fly, they achieve it only after many attempts. When we are born, it takes us constant effort to stand up. We fall down when we try to walk, but we make a lot of attempts to stand up and walk again. We try constantly, succeed it, and master it. Similarly, we fall down in the walk towards our passion, life wants us to stand up, try until we succeed in our passion, and master it; but instead, we give up our passion fearing to fall again. When we fail, we must say ourself that it's an opportunity for us to stand up again. Even the economy of a country will not keep raising up. It falls and raises up constantly with respect to time. People in a country aren't ending their life when their economy falls. Because everyone knows that it will raise up eventually, so does our life. One that understands the basic pattern of life will definitely get succeed in everything he wants throughout his life.

Rescue operation 

“Life pulls us down to determine our ability to stand up.”

Everyone of us possess a self motivator within us. Self motivator pushes us up in all our critical moments. For example, when a dog chases us in road, we tend to run faster than we used to. Why? At this situation, our self motivator pushes us to run faster to save our life. We can use this ability to develop us and rescue us from our fall. But we lose faith over this motivator when we fail or be under depression. When you are in depression, motivator still says you to stand up, but you listen to your

depression, who says that you can't. 

Think of a critical situation where you thought yourself as a failure, and the motivator said you, “This isn't gonna decide my life.”  Motivator never wants you to give up. If we decide to stand up and work towards our passion after a failure, self motivator automatically push us to our maximum extent. Self motivator is the self belief we have in ourselves. If you don't believe yourself, nobody else will.

Conclusion 

“Believe in yourself, if you don't, nobody else will.”

We can't aim an arrow with our eyes closed; we can't achieve our goal with our vision closed by the lids of wrong perception on life. Failure is a temporary incident that happens in everyone's life. Standing up or giving up against it depends on your ability and love towards your passion. When you have success, understand that it is temporary, and treat everyone in the way you did when you were in failure. If you have hope in yourself and work hard towards your goal, nothing can stop you from achieving it. The more you fail, the more wise you be. Understand and accept the pattern of our life, learn to master it, succeed in your passion and contribute your success to change the world in a positive way.